A Letter to Patrick, Five Months Old

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010 • 1 Comment on A Letter to Patrick, Five Months Old

Dear Patrick,

Where has the time gone?  Here you are at five months old already and your father is just days away from finally being home.  He was supposed to be back on May 6, just in time for your mama’s birthday and first Mother’s Day, but now it’s looking like it will be next week.  Soon though, baby!  And this will hopefully be the last time he’s away from us for an extended period of time.  I know that doesn’t mean much to you right now, but trust me—it’s a good thing!

The past month has been the most peaceful since you were born.  No major issues at all!  You sleep well, you’re hardly ever fussy, you smile all the time (even if you are stingy with your laughs) and you love riding in the truck, meeting new people and seeing the world from an upright position.  You are sleeping about 11 hours a night, usually going down around 9 and getting up around 8.  Your daytime naps are getting shorter to make up for the longer nights, but I don’t really mind—it gives us more time to play and have playdates.

Speaking of which, you are becoming quite popular with the girls.  You have several “girlfriends” of various ages and have gotten to play with three of them just in the past week.  Caitlin is two weeks older than you, Sydney is eight weeks younger than you and Cierra is almost four—but she loves baby boys and you certainly took a liking to her!  There don’t seem to be any little boys in our circle of friends at the moment, but I’m sure you don’t mind being the only boy for now.

Your babysitter Ashleigh continues to be the favorite woman in your life.  I do believe you like her even more than you like me, judging by the way you smile at her whenever she’s in the room.  She has been an absolute gift to both of us, monkey. She even adjusted your carseat straps when I couldn’t figure out how to do it.  I don’t know what we’d do without Ashleigh!  (Hopefully we won’t have to find out any time soon.) 

Your big discovery this month has been… your feet!  You grab them any chance you get and attempt to get them to your mouth, though your belly gets in the way.  Socks are the bane of your existence at the moment and you spend a great deal of your time trying to scrape them off with each foot.  Footed pajamas are a constant source of irritation for you as they simply will not come off!  I’m sorry, monkey. At least it has warmed up and you can actually go barefoot a bit more now. 

This past Saturday, you learned to tug your socks off with your hands.  Of course, you only got as far as the one sock before you decided to shove it in your mouth.  Oh, monkey.  Everything goes in your mouth right now.  Your poor Tigger (a gift from Aunt Leslee) spends a great deal of his time soaking wet as you gnaw and suck on his face and limbs.  I believe you’re teething and I do hope it won’t be too painful a process for you. I’m not quite ready for you to be growing teeth.  You’re still my little baby!

The coming month is going to be filled with all kinds of adventures, baby!  You’ll be starting solids soon (I’m waiting on that so your papa can be the first to feed you) and it won’t be long before you’re sitting up on your own.  You’ll be needing some new gear to accommodate your developments.  Mostly that means you’ll be getting some new toys that will be as much fun for the adults in your life as they are for you!

Well, baby, we did it.  That December day we dropped your father off at the airport, I told you it was just you and me kid.  Here we are, four and a half months later, and we have survived!  Thank you for making the past few months as peaceful as you possibly could on your poor, inexperienced and exhausted mama.  I am so very grateful that you are an easy, happy, forgiving baby.  You have made me an easier, happier, more forgiving person as a result.

Happy five month birthday, monkey.  Mama loves you.

Posted by Kristina in Baby, Pregnancy and Baby
  • Emerald says:

    “I am so very grateful that you are an easy, happy, forgiving baby.  You have made me an easier, happier, more forgiving person as a result.”

    That is so beautiful. 

    It actually brought tears to my eyes to read this and imagine how beautiful and amazing it must seem to have Jay so close to coming home.  It truly seems heartening to me somehow; I really look forward to it on your behalf.

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