Kristina Lloyd and Mathilde Madden, the visionaries behind Erotica Cover Watch (and talented authors, both) are closing up shop on their controversial, eye-opening website devoted to calling attention to the sexism on book covers.  It’s been eighteen months (!!) since they first turned a critical eye to the practice of adorning erotic novels and anthologies with women (or women’s body parts).  What’s wrong with that, you ask?  Ah, then you haven’t been following the conversation.  Go back to the beginning and read on for a very enlightening, and often controversial, discussion on book covers, sexism and sexuality. 

The conversation originally started on Jeremy Edwards‘ blog when he featured a forthcoming book cover and I posted this innocent comment:

Thanks for sharing the cover. I need to get that hotter than summer picture up on my blog!

But, seriously, when are they going to put a hunky dude on the cover? Jeremy, you really need to volunteer to correct the gender discrimination.

I am proud to say it was my little comment that triggered a long discussion on Jeremy’s blog.  (Jeremy, ever the gracious host, let us rant in his comments. No word yet on whether he’ll be a cover model on future books, though.) Kristina responded to my comment:

Kristina, I couldn’t agree more!

I am so tired of seeing covers which completely ignore a readership of straight women. Erotica still seems to be stuck in the 70s, its target being primarily het men. And the argument used to defend this goes round in self-fulfilling circles - straight men are (always have been) the main audience, therefore we must market to them if we’re to make any money ... therefore men are (still) the main audience.

I really wish there was an erotica publisher willing to move forward from this.

From there, the comments starting flying over the course of two different blog posts (poor Jeremy) and then the conversation morphed into an amazing, provocative website that criticized sexist book covers and short-sighted publishers and honored the male form in all its naked glory.  (Known as Man Candy Monday!)

These two awesome women tackled a difficult subject head on, opening eyes and pushing buttons (and burning a bridge or two in the process), all in the name of equality.  They asked us to think, to question, to get angry (with them, not at them).  Did their blog do any good?  Absolutely!  Because of Kristina and Mathilde and their battle cry against sexism, XCite Books has started featuring the male body on a number of their erotica titles.  (And I’m delighted to have a story in Temptations 1!)

Contemplate that for a moment.  Because of Kristina and Mathilde and Erotica Cover Watch, there are book covers that go against the industry norm.  Wow.  I mean… just… wow.  And that’s not all they accomplished in the past year and a half.  I encourage you to pop over to read Kristina’s summary of their work (and take a look at those hot new covers!).

I’m thrilled that I was there at the beginning of their campaign and I’m honored that I am included in their farewell post, along with the cover of Fairy Tale Lust.  I will admit, my first thought when I saw my first book cover for Cleis Press was, “I love it!” My second thought was, “Kristina Lloyd will be pleased!”

I wish Kristina and Mathilde all the best.  They deserve kudos for devoting a chunk of their time and creative energy to Erotica Cover Watch.  In lieu of flowers (which they have certainly earned), I offer them some farewell man candy:

Posted by Kristina in Activism in Writing at 02:18 PM Permalink

My favorite Wallflowers song-- and my writing inspiration this morning:

Hey, come on try a little
Nothing is forever
There’s got to be something better than
In the middle
But me & Cinderella,
We put it all together
We can drive it home
With one headlight

ETA: What do you know? Jakob Dylan… with Bruce Springsteen.  Now there’s a threesome I wouldn’t mind being in the middle of:

Posted by Kristina in Musings at 11:50 AM Permalink

March kind of snuck up on me.  I guess that shouldn’t come as a surprise, since I barely remember December except for certain key events (Jay coming home, Patrick being born, Sheri leaving, Jay leaving...) and January was cold and snowy (okay, snowy for Virginia) and February was a mix of cold weather, threats of snow and rediscovering life beyond the house and without baby, thanks to the wonderful babysitter that practically fell in my lap. 

So, here I am at the beginning of March.  Writing, getting ready to sign a contract for my next anthology, planning for Jay to come home (nine more weeks-- less time than he’s already been gone since Patrick’s birth!), planning the release of Fairy Tale Lust… and watching this amazing little creature grow and change almost on a daily basis (and consistently sleep through the night!).

Danielle asked me what the first story I wrote after baby was about.  I have a confession, Danielle: I haven’t yet written that first story, post-baby.  Not quite yet.  But soon, I think.  Very soon.

I have written a few thousand words in the past month and I’ve completed a couple of stories in the process-- and I just submitted five stories.  But all but one of the stories I submitted were reprints and the stories I finished writing were started pre-baby.  In one case, the story was started pre-pregnancy.  So that first story as a new mom has yet to be written.  I anticipate-- and hope-- it will be written in the next week or two, as there are anthology deadlines approaching for which I have no half-started drafts that will fit the themes.

Spring is coming.  So are new stories.

I can’t wait.

Posted by Kristina in Writing at 08:39 PM Permalink

Patrick at 12 weeks and his friend Sydney, at 4 weeks.  I don’t think Patrick knew quite what to make of the little girl.

Posted by Kristina in Pregnancy and Baby in Baby at 08:53 PM Permalink

Today’s babysitting hours will be spent:

--Finishing a story that must, must, must be sent out (via regular mail) tomorrow. I have 1500 words to go.
--Making a serious dent in a second story that must, must, must be finished by the end of the week. I won’t finish it today, but if I can knock out 1000 words, I will be happy.
--Picking up prescriptions for Wilbur (cat) and Henry (dog). Conveniently, the veterinary clinic is in the next building down from Starbucks.
--Having lunch with my friend Wendy (the veterinarian) and her three month old daughter Caitlin, whom I haven’t met yet.
--Working on my next call for submissions!
--Working on the blog for Fairy Tale Lust and looking at the cost effectiveness of promotional items (postcards, business cards, advertising).

And when it’s time to head home (by 4), I will very much be looking forward to hanging out with Patrick for the rest of the day. Did I mention he slept nine hours straight last night and was all smiles this morning?

Life is really good right now.  Really good.

Posted by Kristina in Musings at 11:57 AM Permalink